Those that mind don’t matter?

It’s been a rough few days.  Yesterday was a year and a half since Noah was stillborn.  And I ran into hurt and judgment in an unexpected place.    I have walked a fine line of being open about what exactly happened, but I have been afraid to be too open.  Yesterday underlined why.  You […]

Those that mind don’t matter? Don’t 

It’s been a rough few days.  Yesterday was a year and a half since Noah was stillborn.  And I ran into hurt and judgment in an unexpected place.    I have walked a fine line of being open about what exactly happened, but I have been afraid to be too open.  Yesterday underlined why.  You […]

“I have two.”

“I just have one.” Those words came out of my mouth today and I instantly wanted them back.  It happens occasionally.  Usually when I have someone assuming that two children that are physically present are both mine and I correct them.  But then it always feels wrong.  Sure, only one of the two kids you […]

Mixed messages

I am so shaken by this.  I don’t know someone could do something that is comforting and hurtful at the same time. I hosted a sewing circle in honor of Noah today for Teeny Tears bereavement diapers. I sent out e-mails to our very large mom’s group, and was really happy with the turn out. […]