When people say you murdered your baby

I know I’ve been absent. But I need to get this out. If anyone is still here, forgive me for only coming here in pain. I’m struggling. With everything in the news, with everything being posted. I have been unfriended by family. I have had people I considered friends tell me (unknowing that it applies […]

Those that mind don’t matter?

It’s been a rough few days.  Yesterday was a year and a half since Noah was stillborn.  And I ran into hurt and judgment in an unexpected place.    I have walked a fine line of being open about what exactly happened, but I have been afraid to be too open.  Yesterday underlined why.  You […]

Those that mind don’t matter? Don’t 

It’s been a rough few days.  Yesterday was a year and a half since Noah was stillborn.  And I ran into hurt and judgment in an unexpected place.    I have walked a fine line of being open about what exactly happened, but I have been afraid to be too open.  Yesterday underlined why.  You […]

As Long as it’s Healthy…

“As long as it’s healthy” is a phrase that makes me cringe.  Because I know it’s not always the case.  And that things can be ok in spite of it. I wanted to like this article, I did.  It’s by a mom with a child diagnosed during pregnancy with spina bifida.  I’ve made no secret […]

A Heartbreaking Choice

I was nervous when I started reading a post from Grounded Parents titled “Abortion Rhetoric from the Perspective of a “Miracle Baby” Mom.” I’m frequently nervous when the topic of abortion comes up.  And when it is paired with the the topic of micropreemies, infertility, or stillbirth, I get even more nervous. It didn’t use […]